Another video of Melissa sharing her struggles of an abusive relationship.
Here is the full letter we were reading in the video from stevens website
Are you beginning to see the logic now?
The documentary is reaching further and further and taking on a life of its own. Does it make sense to talk about this now, or only after its too late to unring the bell? Do you also realize my fiance has had editorial empowerment over the film but she has not disputed the facts therein or asked me to make any changes? What’s up with that? Afterall, she did write after being detained at the border that she was finally having doubts about the harm you were bringing to her life. Who is playing who? INTERESTINGLY….the same day after writing this someone described your treatment of her as if you “owned her” and she did even try to get away. Thatta girl honey!
It is very ironic that your relentless attempts to destroy our unbreakable love only draw more attention back to your own crimes. I am looked at as a hero by people who know the true story. Women swoon to hear it. We have made a legendary love story that will endure. Suprised? If so you suffer from something around here we call drinking your own coolaid. You are part of the dillusionati. My fiance can tell you I am the most loving and compassionate man she’s ever known, hence the precious terms of endearment she had for me, but for you, until she has her freedom again…and you prove it to me, this isn’t an occassion for “nice”.
What was your critical mistake in lighting this fire? You had no business trying to dictate her life and demand of her who she could and couldn’t love. You never gave her a choice. I got in the way of you stealing from her. Trust me, that wasn’t very well hidden. You broke her heart and rattled her sanity with lies. You encouraged her to act out in violence that shamed her and hurt her badly. You harmed her emotionally expressly to steal from her. In the United States you are called a thief and worse. You were a devil on her shoulder that could never stand how powerful her and I were when always together. She tried to tell you that. You isolated her and never allowed us the chance to even to say goodbye. Remember, I was witness to all of this…again, refer back to the film…that is EXACTLY how it went down…the last thing I wanted was for her to feel guilty…but this is squarely on YOU…not her. You vanished her secretly and voicelessly into your own strict control and censorship of who she could speak to and even believe. You strangled her with lies…that’s not free will. You betrayed her very humanity. Why are you so terrified of letting her communicate with me? The answer is obvious. Its becoming obvious to the public too. What would Teal do?
You made OUR story into the downfall of the eof. Have faith that this will be more certain the longer you keep her in the lie. What you did to her life in 2013 alone would have been enough to do that. You can never fathom what your stupidity brought to her life and all the tears and heartbreak I supported her through…..because of you. You did it with calculated intention. How much was your airfare out of Bali anyway?
If you would have been smart you would at least allowed us to say goodbye and not made any of this my business…but we were in a very committed relationship…when she dissappeared I knew full well how much she was in danger and how you set up her strict controls with threats, guilt and lullaby logic. The letter camaign was her bridge to home and anyone can see that. You are expert and textbook manipulators and completely cut off her freedom to communicate…it is crystal clear it is a mental block because she always tries to work around it when she attempts to reach out to me. I know now where she learned such odd terms like “emotional blackmail”…it is one of your own fear tactics. All of your patterns are textbook brainwashing.
You also make a big mistake thinking that anything in her present changes or excuses anything about what you did to her and us. Would something change if she found out everything she suffered in 2014 was an elaborate charade to enable you to continue to steal from her and much worse? You should probably eloborate about the Verzy scheme and what would have been the actual result if she’d have signed over her life savings or her parent’s retirement money. I heard all about it from them. One of the missions of the film is to make sure you know the world is watching you now, and to not attempt to harm her further.
If people who know the truth and can see through the lies and sloppy attempts to slander me can see me as a hero, what are you doing to your own image and reputation by not empowering her to resolve this on her own? She focuses everything back to my film like a laser beam. This somehow works for you? People completely empathize with what you did to us and the fact that I refuse to blame her, stand by her and forgive her. All your attacks have failed. Its clear what fire I had to walk through to protect her…do any of your schemes ever work?
Our story will only continue to grow in legend and smother the eof until her and I make our own decision together what we will do moving forward. If you can’t control her now, you have a problem because you are caught in between two sparring tigers. That…or you have the perfect opportunity to prove to the world that I am wrong and that she DOES indeed have the freedom to talk with me. On the other hand, if you are unable to empower her freedom, it continues to prove me right and that you keep her in an incredibly abusive situation…regardless of how happy it seems now in the fishbowl that you keep her in. Let her go. Let her decide. Prove to me that she is even still alive, because I don’t even know that for sure. I don’t budge until you let us speak. If you are unable to undo the harm you did to her mind, then heaven help you. Her fury will awaken eventually. She is a very smart girl. What does it say about her loyalty to the eof if she is unwilling to resolve this between us. The world is watching.
I reiterate that it is my specific policy to not know anything about her life or whereabouts until I hear it first hand from her. I have maintained that policy since October 2014. It keeps me clear of the charade you build for the rest of the public. I am fully aware of the openly malicious attacks and invasion of my social circles by her or an imposter. What you have done to her world to make her think I am not on her side is your problem. She is still loved unconditionally. I find it very suspicious that she only makes failing attempts to contact me through third parties that would have no idea if its really even her. I avoid her intentionally hurtful and harmful social media like the plague. She or one of you are even trying to have me hurt or killed. I also have a very strict policy that I am supportive of her, on her side, and defending her in the emotionally crippled state you put her in. I forgive her unconditionally. So there. Her and I have always been on the same side and you’ve never tricked me into turning against her. Yes we ARE that strong. Prove me wrong by allowing us to hear each other’s voices again. I am still her best friend. If I break or give up, it further validates the abuse and harm you subjected her to. Not happening.
She can contact me at the skype address she knows and don’t lie to her that there are legal reasons she can’t. We are American’s and your retaliatory attack on my reputation and the First Amendment was an epic fail. Rewind the documentary and take note. This is the only chance the EOF has got to get out of her way because HER story is now bigger than yours will ever be. Maybe your egos will at least recognize that you should draw the line at this incredible embarrasment of the truth coming to light. Oops. Always check the resume of men who’s women you are intending to exploit. We were an amazing coule. That fits perfectly with our love and the relationship that we mapped out for OUR lives…and the man that she expected me to be for, unrelenting in my sacrifice for her…her Jack. She waited her whole life to be with someone who loved her for her. She will tell you that we were remarkably compatable and seredipitiously perfect together in every way. That hasn’t changed just because you were able to keep us apart.
There is a line drawn in the sand. I already know you are a criminal, now prove that you aren’t a coward.
I may even forgive the EOF if her and I decide together to do that. I’ll keep my skype line open but don’t expect this to be easy for either one of us. If she is still in Europe we have the same bedtime. Be patient because we have a lot of catching up to do.
In the video I did with Melissa, I also mentioned guru ethics reached out to my ex, Gus Mouskos. Below is a screenshot showing their conversation. How low can these people stoop? What is it going to take to get them to stop spreading malicious, defamatory, lies in their petty, vindictive smear campaign?
Everything Debra said about us is maliciously false in this image. We never stalked or harassed them. I immediately blocked them when I sensed their hypocritical games, and I moved on. Other people actually kept tabs on them, and were concerned. They informed us of how low they were stooping in their efforts to spread malicious, defamatory gossip about us and The EOF Project..
The claims from Katherine are also not true, and what happened with her, is shared in my Bali Blog series
Diego never promised to get rid of all fear. He always says to understand fear. we did have slogans before like end of fear or total liberation of fear but they were just slogans and were not to be taken literally. Though i agree, they are too bombastic.
-coming soon the police statements and conversations with steven stohstrom and his stalking charges.